Know the sexualitya fundamental expression of the human being and an important component of the couple relationship means being able to live it fully and serenely.
So that it is functional to the pleasure and happiness of the couple, it must be given the due space, due attention, due care; In this sense the sexuality It is made of ingredients that go beyond coitus and should also be experienced as a relationship, communication, game, exchange of pleasure and privileged moment of intimacy.
Many couples, however, have sexual intercourse in which they declare that they are not really satisfied: it is very difficult for the sexuality Both a true sharing ground when the clash, hostility, struggle for power or to affirm one’s role are in the daily behaviors of the partners.
In these couples sex takes on the function of remedying quarrels and tensions or the reassuring function of being a proof of love in the couple is attributed to him. Finally, even more problematic is the situation in which there is no more sex among the partners and, usually, not even intimacy; This detachment, which arises from an emotional disengagement and feeds it, brings the two partners more and more distant from each other even in daily life.
THE Problems related to sexuality I am continuously increasing; Sex often resembles a test, a performance that, as such, requires competitiveness with oneself and with the partner. It is no coincidence that we speak of sexual performance.
The goal remains to achieve a result: erection, ejaculation, orgasm proper and partner and this will hardly bring the two partners to the pleasure and achieve their psychophysical well -being.
The sexual well -being It is a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well -being in relation to sexuality; It is not only the absence of a disorder or sexual dysfunction. The sexual well -being requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships; It is essential to get to aware choices that follow their personal motivations. It is important to rediscover the value of intimacy, listening to the other, of sexuality free from the anxiety of obtaining a result.
The Italian Federation of Scientific Sexology (Fisso) has decided to promote the new edition of the Week of sexual well -being to be held from 28 September to 3 October 2015 throughout Italy with events aimed at Promotion of sexual well -being.
The initiative provides:
- Activation in schools, or other aggregation centers, of a listening desk for sexual problems.
- Meetings with associations/groups of parents and/or teachers.
- The organization of seminars on the themes inherent in sexology.
- Free sexological advice for free information to the individual or couples who request it, by telephone appointment directly with the professional or the center that has joined the initiative.
The intent is to start a research on the sexological demand of the population that affixes to the various Sexology centers In Italy in order to give resonance and visibility to it. Throughout Italy, 150 professionals in the sector have joined the week of sexual well -being who promote the organization of seminars, listening points and offer free consultations; On the website of the Italian Federation of Sexology, contacts with the mailing and/or telephone number of professionals who have joined the event and the initiatives proposed in the various regions are visible in the space dedicated to the week of sexual well -being.
This initiative has the aim of conveying a correct information in the sexological field In its different applications (education for sexuality, sexual advice, therapy of male and female sexual dysfunctions, research); a correct diffusion of these topics contributes to the best understanding of sexological work and is an important initiative of Promotion of sexual well -being.
In fact, the main objective of the event remains the promotion of the sexual well -being of the individual and the couple, without any distinction of gender, sexual orientation or culture of belonging, in addition to that of raising awareness of the population on the main issues related to sexuality.
During the week of sexual well -being theIpsic Institute of Florence offers free sexual advice with the Dr. Valentina Scarselli who joined the initiative. Consultants are made by reservation by contacting our secretariat.
